While some women may think this is okay, I’m here to tell you it’s not.With any relationship, effective communication is key to its survival.
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He’s a fashion designer and writer so he’s always busy. -Cerise Hey Cerise, He didn’t answer you because an answer might mess with the status quo and he likes things the way they are now. ;-) At this time, he doesn’t have a lot to give to a partner.
Everything’s great when we spend time with each other. It doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy who “uses” women and is totally selfish; it just means he has other priorities in life right now (like his career.) He’s afraid that if he says yes to your proposal with the little he can offer, he will fail to live up to your relationship expectations. At this stage of the game you’re excited to see him whenever he can make the time. Suddenly you’re feeling sad and neglected when he doesn’t make time for you, rather than appreciating him for when he does.
The hectic life that comes with success is not enough of an excuse.
Using success and work as a scapegoat, some men do and say questionable things.
Neither of us wanted that so we changed hats and decided we would be “best friends” instead.
Love is a beautiful thing and I understand that you don’t want to throw it away. Shift a few expectations, create a few boundaries and you can continue to fall in love with this man AND let him be who he needs to be at this time. In time, a week, a month, a year, he might find he DOES a lot to give to someone and that someone might be you. Click to Tweet: What to do when you’re in love with an unavailable man.
By asking him to be more than friends, you ask him for a greater commitment.
I met this great (if impossibly busy) guy and we became incredibly close very quickly.
But the bottom line is, I’m just not very good with “relationships” or dating in general.